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greyangel3 57,1940 C
1  Article
Is It Polite To Ask For Pics Right Away (Online Dating Ettiquette)   4/26/2005

As couple that is new to this online dating scenario, we have consistently found ourselves in a situation where we were attracted to a couple by their profile...began talking a lot and are either left wondering what they look like or are disappointed by the picture we finally recieve. Which is left us wondering when the polite time to ask for a pic is. For all you newbies like us out there ...


3 Comments, 161 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
rm_Disciple316 48 C
17  Articles
ARE WE HOOKED FOR LIFE?   4/26/2005

We have been talking about swinging for a while. She loves...CRAVES big dicks and unfortunately, I do not have one...if I did I'd be deadly. She gets really wild when I used large dildos on her, it unleashes a side of her that I have not seen before. Anyways, we just recently had our first threesum. We met him online and quickly invited him over when he met our requirements(9" or bigger, ...


2 Comments, 185 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
867LOVE2206 45 M
10  Articles
THE TROUBLE WITH LOVE IS..........................   4/25/2005

So, the trouble with LOVE is........? Well, for starters, love (in my opinion), is an over-rated expression that is given way too much credibility. It is also technically just a desire to have. Don't agree, well, ask yourself this question, how many times have you seen an awesome pair of shoes, a bag whatever, and said the famous three words, "I love this". Well how long then after you have ...


2 Comments, 94 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
rm_dome6984 40 F
3  Articles
Dating with an STD   4/25/2005

Ok people got a good question for you. What if you were to meet someone and you two clicked really well, when yall were really close and comfortable with each other they told you that they had an STD. Would you still want to be with this person or would you drop them like a hot potatoe?? This is for men and women I need to know your opinions. So hit me up with your responses.


4 Comments, 271 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
867LOVE2206 45 M
10  Articles
What men want   4/23/2005

Well it is always a challenge to figure out what the brothas want or if they are comfortable or love what you have to offer. Then again getting a man is easy, keeping him is the real deal. <br> The idea i'm trying to give is that a lot of sistas out ther thinks that all a man wants is to get between their legs. Mind you majority does want to get there, but what about the other ...


2 Comments, 134 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
swmohunny79 44 F
12  Articles
comparing   4/22/2005

Character is like a tree and reputation like its shadow. <br> The shadow is what we think of it; the tree is the real thing. <br> Don't judge a person by a persons reputation, get to know them first. Then decide what you think of them


0 Comments, 132 Views, 6 Votes ,3.93 Score
rm_instantsaver 66 M
1  Article
do it properly!!   4/20/2005

ok guys, we've all got one, but PLEASE when you take a picture of it at least do it propperly, no one wants to see a cock sticking out of a pair of shorts or from under a t shirt, just looks so tacky. so come on, GET 'EM OFF!! and show what you're offering propperly! I expect there are many who agree with this!


2 Comments, 274 Views, 9 Votes ,1.72 Score
svelte_pgh73 42 M
1  Article
Does intelligence really matter?   4/19/2005

Just wondering if I am the only one who needs a sex partner that has a brain. I met a nympho or what I considered a nympho in a nightclub a few years back. I considered her hot, 5 foot 5, 105 lbs, long red hair, creamy complexion, and mid size breasts. She was enthralled with me and therefore she would bang me whenever I could find the time to meet up with her. In fact, she wanted me so ...


7 Comments, 257 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
867LOVE2206 45 M
10  Articles
Understanding Men   4/19/2005

1. If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. <br> 2. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. <br> 3. If you have ANY doubt in your mind about a man's character, leave him alone. <br> 4. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. <br> 5. Stop trying to change yourself for a ...


6 Comments, 293 Views, 13 Votes ,3.98 Score
rm_reisaree 42 F
11  Articles
Handling Gossip   4/16/2005

I have found that the best way to handle gossip, when it concerns yourself is to simply ignore it. If its true, well, so what... And if its not true, well, yes, you guessed it.. so what!... <br> It takes way too much energy to chase down each and every he said she said type of thing. Its not worth it. You know what is true and what is not. If people you know don't want to ...


2 Comments, 116 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score
how do you handle hook up endings?   4/15/2005

After you meet how do you handle the ending? <br> Just shake hands and say thanks? What if you don;t want arepeat and the other person/s do?


2 Comments, 153 Views, 4 Votes ,4.41 Score
FreeAgain21 60 F
8  Articles
Look Inside, Not Out   4/14/2005

I'm one of those people who needs to lose about 25 lbs. Right now, I would say I am average to ample. I hold my weight well, and unless completely naked, it's hard to tell I am overweight. Not being conceited, I am attractive, honest, open-minded, and easy-going. For the last month I have been eating right, and exercising, and feel really good about my progress. However, I have a problem ...


1 Comments, 195 Views, 10 Votes ,5.18 Score
babygirl43100 53 F
12  Articles
I need this answered   4/14/2005

Why is it when you hook up with a guy he says he wants to see you again and then he doesent ever come around again? I have read many profiles and there are just as many who say they want LTR as there are those who want no strings.So are there any men out there who realy want LTR?


5 Comments, 223 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
A question about online etiquette   4/14/2005

I have been watching the "who's online now" page, hoping to find local ladies who are chatting, or on IMC. <br> Often, when I find them, and click on the chatting or IMC link, I get no reply, and find them gone from the chat, or get no reply to the IMC page. <br> Wondering if I am viewed as "stalking", which is not my intent. <br> Do ladies feel uncomfortable ...


1 Comments, 111 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
CrazyMan2125 44 M
2  Articles
Do you choose become a angel or a devil ?   4/14/2005

I think more interesting to see god from hell...what do you think ?....... sometimes you only need god when you unhappy....what do you thin ?


1 Comments, 38 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
1000 Words   4/13/2005

I've been on this site a good while. I've picked up on some patterns in profiles. I'll addres two. I'm a single straight woman looking for my male counterpart. In searching male profiles it seems some straight men find it necessary to emphasize their lack of interest in other men. This leads me to believe they've had the circumstance to have to reject offers from other males. Also ...


0 Comments, 184 Views, 5 Votes ,5.10 Score
Men, how soon is too soon for sex?   4/13/2005

If you know that you don't respect women who will give you sex too soon, why do you encourage, push for it or even ask? Do you like having sex with women who you don't even respect? How soon is too soon to YOU? Is it the first date after a few drinks? Is it on the second or third date? Is it after a few weeks or a few months of dating/seeing one another? I think this is always a ...


3 Comments, 151 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
makemecumcrazy85 38 F
1  Article
Big And Beautiful   4/10/2005

This is advice to all women. Remember that you are all beautiful no matter what size you are. I've come to relize that not all of us are suppose to look like barbie dolls. Not all men are into smaller sized women. Big women have real good curves too! What it all comes down to is love yourself for who you are and dont let anyone make you feel uneasy about your appearence the most ...


1 Comments, 297 Views, 18 Votes ,6.67 Score
hot_doctor_usa 46 M
18  Articles
Are breasts an erogenous zone?   4/10/2005

Erogenous zones" are parts or areas of human body that provide sexual arousal when touched. It is commonly noted (and various magazines have had polls on this) that apart from the genitals, the erogenous zones vary tremendously between individuals - even within Americans. Some people like to have their breasts caressed, some like their neck or thighs being touched, or belly or feet etc. ...


1 Comments, 147 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
rm_acgillib 45 M
1  Article
Lonely lover   4/9/2005

I am having trouble finding love after being in a full time relationship for a number of years withstanding numerous anxious times the relationship unfortunately dissolved since that time (6 years) I have not been able to find anyone serious since I've been with other women since one-nighters the longest has been about a month, what am I doing wrong??


1 Comments, 56 Views, 0 Votes
rm_capt_hartley 45 M
4  Articles
Going down   4/9/2005

Why is it that a large number of men don't like to go down on their girl, but expect a blowjob? For me pleasing my woman orally is as good as it gets. I prefer going down on a woman than getting a blowjob.


2 Comments, 89 Views, 5 Votes ,4.45 Score
Swallow!   4/7/2005

I've read that some girls, (or males, ) on this site do not like to swallow when it comes to giving a blowjob. Well, I learned a trick back in high school that MIGHT help. When you are sucking his dick really good. (I mean so good until he tells you he is on the verge of cumming in your mouth!) There is a little ridge between his testicles, and his dick. Gently hold that part, and it ...


6 Comments, 649 Views, 14 Votes ,3.30 Score
Black_Mini_Skirt 49 F
1  Article
Female & Male Parts   4/7/2005

For the life of me I dont understand why some members are under the impression that thier "private parts" look "good" enough to show to other members such as myself. <br> You can "never" go wrong with a pair of breast cause breast will be breast saggy or perky. <br> A hard cock looks much better than a soft one in my opinion. <br> NOW here comes my arguement, not ...


5 Comments, 299 Views, 10 Votes ,4.18 Score
FreeAgain21 60 F
8  Articles
Go for the Points   4/7/2005

As a standard member it is difficult to make contact with people you would be interested in getting to know better. So, obviously, the Silver and Gold memberships are great, and not that expensive, for a site like this. However, a lot of people can't have AdultFriendFinder charges appearing on their credit card each month. <br> So, I say "go for the points". I realize it only gets you a one ...


4 Comments, 140 Views, 12 Votes ,3.86 Score
hot_doctor_usa 46 M
18  Articles
Nipple Stimulation   4/5/2005

What is Nipple Stimulation? Gentle rubbing or rolling of the nipple, or suckling of the nipples to encourage contractions is called nipple stimulation. <br> Why does Nipple Stimulation work? Oxytocin, a hormone that causes contractions, is released in the body when the breasts are stimulated. After the baby is born, this release is important for the involution (returning to ...


1 Comments, 82 Views, 0 Votes
funtime68692 55 C
3  Articles
curious female   4/4/2005

I have never been with a woman before but have always found them sexy and thought of them in ways that i would think of a man I like .I have had friends that are bi and have flirted with me but then i freeze up and shy away so what am i so affraid of? I would to try it out.


4 Comments, 282 Views, 9 Votes ,2.36 Score
MyHeartLost4U 59 M
12  Articles
Advice to being successful that some members look for.   4/4/2005

Over my years as a member of the FriendFinder site I have seen others ask for advice or complain about being successful. Once again I am going to try and give you some of my suggestions and tips to the ones that been asking for help. These are some of the things that made me successful. I found what I wanted, why not you? All it takes is to knowing how to use the tools and how you go about ...


0 Comments, 221 Views, 13 Votes ,5.16 Score
rm_dannyg_nb 52 F
9  Articles
Body Beautiful   4/3/2005

Come on girls, we all know that the majority of women are not front page material for a men's glossy magazine. <br> While the ongoing battle to loose weight or the search for that ever so simple diet continues i have a few tricks to be and feel sexy even when you know that things aren't how you want them. <br> Mood... <br> Lighting can make all the ...


2 Comments, 182 Views, 8 Votes ,4.17 Score
rm_horny34769 42 F
1  Article
What do I do???   4/1/2005

I have been living with a guy i met from AdultFriendFinder and we r very much alike and we get along gr8...problem is he has had a phone buddy for 2 years and well u know how that is she just filed for divorce from her husband and i think she is expecting my bf to move there when it is done well enter me i have been living with him for 3 mths and we have both expressed the L word ONCE and then things got ...


7 Comments, 198 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
Do you believe them?   3/31/2005

I'm new here on HotMatch and I wonder how serious you should take pictures and profiles of people? How serious do you take the things people tell you in they're profile and do you believe they're picture is real?


2 Comments, 89 Views, 5 Votes ,2.16 Score